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Anne Frank: Buddy Elias on his 'wild' cousin

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Published: 25th Jun 2012 01:10:28

It's 65 years since the publication of Anne Frank's diary, written during the two years teenager and her family hid from the Nazis in occupied Amsterdam. Anne died in the Belsen death camp in 1945, but her cousin Buddy Elias still has vivid memories of his childhood playmate.

Sixty-five years have passed, but Buddy Elias cannot forget the first time he set eyes on the book that made his teenage cousin, Anne Frank, a global household name.

"Otto - Anne's father - handed it to me and said, look it's Anne's book. He was crying. It was such a memorable day," the 87-year-old recalls. "I saw Anne's picture on the cover and I felt so happy and so proud, but also so sad."

Seated at his home in the Swiss city of Basle, where his father brought the family in the early 1930s fleeing from the Nazi party's rise to power in their native Germany, Buddy spoke about his slightly gawky-looking, but famous cousin, with great emotion and with a sparkle in his eyes.

When he first read her diary after its publication in the Netherlands on June 25 1947, he said he struggled to recognise the Anne whom he had known as a young playmate.

"She was a different girl, grown up, more intelligent, writing about things a child doesn't usually write about.

"That was not the playful lively Anne that I knew," he adds simply.

Anne's cousin Buddy Elias: 'Otto Frank said he didn't know his daughter until he read her diary'

Anne was four years Buddy's junior, but, as a young child in Frankfurt, she was always the one with the ideas of what to get up to and what to play, he says.

"She was a little wild one, and I was too. That's why we got along so well together. She loved theatre, movies and dressing up games."

On one occasion, Anne convinced Buddy to raid their grandmother's wardrobe and put on the old lady's clothes. "You can imagine how I looked. Anne just laughed and laughed," he says.

When Otto Frank also abandoned Germany with his family, travelling to Amsterdam, a city he knew and loved, Buddy saw less of both Anne and her older sister Margot. And when the Nazis invaded the Netherlands and Jewish families like theirs could no longer freely cross the borders, the two families began to exchange a steady stream of letters instead.

"Anne was already a writer even then, we got almost one letter a week, telling us what she did with her friends, at school," Buddy says.

But there was always a certain innocence to her letters, which belied the growing dangers then looming around the Frank family, as Jews living under Nazi occupation.

"Many Happy Returns, and many more to come," the 13-year-old Anne began one letter to her cousin, on his 17th birthday. "How is it going with a girl you sent us a photo of? Do write and tell me, I am very interested in things like that," she urged, mischievously. "Best wishes to everyone, write me back, Anne."

Buddy never had the chance to reply, since a few days later, a short postcard arrived from Amsterdam, addressed to the Elias family.

1. I can't write a vacation letter now, hugs and kisses from Anne (who writes in Dutch, not German, having lived in Amsterdam since the age of four)

2. All the best, your Edith (Anne's mother)

3. Heartfelt wishes (Anne's elder sister, Margot)

4. 37 Merwedeplein - the apartment the Franks had lived in for nine years before going into hiding (furnished in 1930s style, it is now offered to foreign writers-in-residence, who are oppressed in their own countries)

5. 6 July 1942 - the day they went into hiding in a secret annex of Otto Frank's business premises at 263 Prinsengracht (now part of the Anne Frank Museum), though the postcard was written the day before, when Margot received call-up papers asking her to report for a "work camp" in Germany

6. Leni Elias - Otto Frank's sister, living in neutral Switzerland with Buddy and the rest of her family

7. The stamp says "Obercommando der Wehrmacht - Geprueft" (Supreme command of the armed forces - Checked) indicating that it has been passed by the military censor

Anne, her mother and sister, had written a short message on the front.

Her father's message, on the other side, wished his sister a happy birthday - two months early - and said that the flow of letters would stop. A strong hint that the family would be going into hiding.

Within hours, the Franks moved into a secret annex attached to Otto's workplace. All contact with Basle came to an end.

"Dearest Lunni, Happy Birthday! We're all sending you our best birthday wishes today, since we want to be sure that you'll get them in time and we won't have a chance to send them later. All our love from the bottom of our hearts. We are healthy and together, that's the main thing. Everything is hard for us these days, but sometimes you just have to take what comes. Hopefully peace will come this year so we can see each other again. We can't correspond with I. and with you all any more, which is regrettable, but there's nothing we can do about it. She must understand. Again warmest regards, Your O."

Message from Otto Frank to his sister, Leni (who he affectionately addresses as Lunni). When he says he can no longer correspond with I, he is referring to his and Leni's mother, Alice.

It was, says Buddy simply, a "terrible terrible time, we were frightened not knowing, for two years."

Anne's unique testimony was written over that two-year period in which, unbeknown to Buddy and his family, the Franks were in hiding.

Otto, having survived deportation to the Auschwitz death camp, returned to Holland after the war ended, where he was handed the piles of loose pages, with Anne's neat handwriting on them, by a former employee who had managed to save them from the grasp of the Gestapo following the family's arrest.

But at first, Buddy says, Otto was reluctant to put the diary into print. "He said it was an intimate book, and why would anyone be interested in what his daughter wrote."

It was only after consulting friends and family, that he realised that what he had in his hands was "a fantastic document that must be printed." Millions of copies have since been sold around the world, in numerous languages.

Despite his age, Buddy now still spends much of his time speaking publicly about Anne Frank.

"I get letters and emails all the time from people saying how reading the diary has changed their lives," he says.

Undoubtedly it has changed his life too. On at least two separate occasions, Anne spoke directly to him in her diary, mentioning on one date a dream that she had about them shopping together in Basle, and on another that she had heard he had finished drama school.

"I am so sad, yet proud that she remembered me, it made me happy," he said, in a half whisper.

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